OUR ELECTED CRIMINALS

OUR ELECTED CRIMINALS

[SOME ETHICS & SCANDALS]

How the American Public has let down the American Public

Ø  Our elected officials have been busy little beavers when it comes to breaking the law and/or acting contrary to their stated family and social values.

Ø  In the summation section you will see that very few of these “ladies” and “gentlemen” ever pay any significant penalty for such discretions.

v  These are the very folks we like to call our political “elite”. Really?

Ø  Almost, to a man or a woman, they are all lawyers, which is somehow eerily ironic, and absolutely unacceptable.

v  Take a good look, folks!

Ø  Then ask yourself the question; “Why do we, as citizens of this Nation, keep electing these degenerates to represent us?”

Ø  The answer to that question is we all have “STUPID” tattooed across our foreheads.

Ø  When the Hell do we wake up and make democracy work the way it was intended to work?

Ø  We don’t need a whole lot of “Hope And Change”, or “a Future We Can Believe In”.

Ø  We certainly don’t have to “Make America Great Again”; we already are, and have been for quite some time.

v  Can we do better?

Ø  You bet your sweet Ass we can, but, if we don’t start soon, we’re all going to Hell in a hand-basket!

Ø  Is that the legacy you want to leave your kids, their kids, and so on down the line?

Ø  Stop being a collective herd of lemmings with your heads in the sand (or, elsewhere).

Ø  If you don’t do it, nobody will.

Ø  Please try using that lump on top of your shoulders that God gave you.

v  Let’s get rid of that tattoo and be a part of the democratic process.

The tally on this score card:

       

# of perpetrators:               Republicans,50      Democrats, 35

# jail time:                           19

# probation:                        7

# censured:                         4

# impeached:                      1

# fined:                                7

# nothing:                           56

# charges dropped:            3

A number of figures jump off the page at you; indicating the elite Washington ruling class. They don’t treat each other in the same fashion that they treat the Unwashed Masses. I guess you already knew that. It’s just worth confirming it from time to time.

Now, tell me, is a Second American Revolution out of the question?

POP....GO THE WEASELs!

Change is good.

I used to be of the mind that change was something undertaken as a last resort, when nothing else seemed to be working. I am glad to report I have a different point of view on this subject, now. Yes, I have changed my thinking on this whole matter of change. The change I am referring to is happening inside of me, to me, for me, and is aimed at releasing the “me” that has always been here. It has been the “me” that I have kept tightly sealed somewhere deep inside for a very long time.

As this “me” emerges there are, undoubtedly, going to be those around me who are caught off guard, bent a little out of shape, or simply decide they can’t possibly deal with it at all. I have carried a self-resentment for years because I felt the need to keep certain aspects of my personality in a lock-box. I tried hard to be accommodating to the point that people around me felt it was all right to take advantage of my good nature and seeming lack of assertiveness. This invariably sent me to a position of some degree of disadvantage and resultant anger, as people thought I was giving them an open invitation to use me as a doormat and impose their will and philosophy on me. When the anger boiled over, most folks were not comfortable and tended to run for the hills.

It turns out that I actually possess my own will and philosophy; my own thoughts and feelings; my own sense of right and wrong. It turns out that, with the help of a handful of very caring people, I have discovered where I had all this buried, and how to bring it all back to the surface from the depths. These folks have allowed me to discover and acknowledge how, where, and when I got my philosophy, my thoughts, my feelings, my sense of right and wrong, and my ability to weigh things fairly and equally. They allowed me to discover where all that was hidden and that it was all right to fetch it and bring it all to the surface once again. They allowed me to reach back and discover when I had enjoyed these personality attributes to their fullest, and allowed me to accept the idea that it was a good thing to let these attributes see the light of day once again.

With a lot of help and support, I have allowed myself the luxury of becoming clean and sober. I have allowed myself to become free of psychotropic drugs. These newfound freedoms have made it possible to finally assert myself and stand up for what I want and need. I have a new respect for the eighteen, or so, inches around me, which is all I have the ability and right to control. I have let go of the idea that what others think, feel, or do has anything to do with me, what I am able to control. People make their own decisions, and no one else has any real or perceived control over that. Therefore, what anyone may think about me, I have absolutely no control over. What I do have is control over the way I act, react, and conduct my own life, and I am learning that that alone can be a full-time job. With that in mind, I consider myself to be fully employed. I accept the premise that change is good.

 

some ways to demonstrate assertiveness:

 - no more acceptance of rude, bigoted, politically ridiculous, factually inaccurate emails and/or statements to your face

 - no saying yes simply for the reason of “making nice” with other people; if your real answer is no, say no

- immediate vocal disagreement with anything directed at you that you don’t like, or believe in.

- honesty, over trying to smooth over any situation; even if that honesty doesn’t sit well with others

- no expectations of anyone ever agreeing with you on anything; what matters most to you is what you think and feel, not what anyone else thinks, or feels about you.

- You only control your own space; make good use of it

- show empathy when needed; but, not to the point anyone perceives you as weak

- never fear stating who you are, what you think, and how you feel

- tone the anger and aggression down to an assertive level not to be mistaken as a personality flaw to be exploited, or abused

How can you be tired and angry all at the same time?

Does being tired of the B.S. swirling around you make you angry? Or, do you get angry first, then get tired of being angry? Either way, I’m learning that what comes first really doesn’t matter much. If the correct mix of people, places, and things exist in your life, this combination of emotional and physical feeling have the ability to create some very powerful thoughts. If these thoughts are personally positive, they can make your life much simpler and easier to deal with. The polar opposite is letting these thoughts get to you in a negative manner that can ruin an otherwise pleasant day.

To keep this all on the positive side of the coin, there are choices you can make that will give you the best chance for success in achieving a good outcome. The power of the word “NO” is something that I have found almost impossible to grasp until now. It’s such a simple little word, but its correct usage in everyday life might make the difference in whether you succumb to life’s constant attacks, or allow yourself to rise above the day-to-day trivialities that can drive you into the gutter.

The human element in interpersonal relations and perceptions play a huge role in how you ultimately feel about your surroundings; including the people around you. I guess some of us, myself included, have a personality set that somehow signals a character flaw that others feel they can take advantage of, or exploit, in some way beneficial to their own agenda. The outward projection of a quiet, introspective personality has led to family, friends, and casual acquaintances attempting to control, and/or manipulate, me for their own, mostly questionable and selfish, purposes.

The work I have done on my own feelings, emotions, and thought patterns over the past four and a half years has led me more to the positive side of that coin. It’s not always an easy task to stay on the positive side, and, occasionally, the negative side sneaks up and bites you in the butt. I have learned not to run from these negative situations, as I would be doing in the past. I now possess the tools to express my anger in such a way that is beneficial to my own wellbeing. Even if I find myself quickly sinking into the doldrums of anger and self-pity, I no longer feel the need to wallow in the mire for weeks and months on end. I have drastically shortened the time in which I blame myself, and get bogged down in self-doubt and self-recrimination. I can now realize that, just maybe, it’s not me. I can now realize that other people, places, and things can either share the blame, or fully accept the blame. I can now accept that maybe, just maybe, I don’t need these negative forces working against me. To this end, it is very comforting to know how to take command of that little word “NO”. There is a full list of other expletives that convey the sentiment of “NO”, and it is nice to have a command of those words when the situation calls for something a little stronger.

But, some things will probably never change. The biggest, most threatening thing that will probably ever change is the learned fear I have of losing control in a fit of rage and anger. I have seen what that looks like, and it simply is not a pretty picture from any perspective. My learning curve will be a long one that, hopefully, will lead to my ability to portray a more confident, outgoing public persona. Unfortunately, the people closest to you are the ones who will be the last to recognize the change, and the first to continue abusing your perceived character flaws.

A short word of caution: Do not keep pushing your own agenda on me. You might not like the outcome. Have a nice day!